Donald Trump’s recent victory has laid bare uncomfortable truths about who we really are as a nation. It’s a truth that many of us were too willing to ignore, but now we can’t turn a blind eye any longer. Trump’s win, and the way many Americans rallied behind him, has exposed the darker sides of our society that we’ve tried to deny for far too long.
For decades, many of us believed that kindness and empathy were core American values. We thought that, as a country, we cared about our neighbors and those in need. Trump has shown us that, at least for many Americans, that ideal is no longer true. Instead of focusing on the collective good, it’s clear that too many are more concerned with personal gain and self-interest. And it’s not just about individual attitudes—it extends to our role on the world stage, too. Countries that once looked to the United States for support in times of crisis now know they can’t count on us.
What Trump has also exposed is that, for too many, character no longer matters. Growing up, I was taught to value honesty, integrity, and respect. These were the traits that were supposed to define us as a society. If I had ever mocked someone for their appearance or circumstances, I would have been severely reprimanded. But Trump’s behavior has shown us that those lessons are increasingly irrelevant. In today’s America, it seems perfectly acceptable—if not even celebrated—to mock, belittle, and degrade others.
This election has also reminded us that racism, xenophobia, and misogyny aren’t just relics of the past—they’re alive and well. Despite years of progress, it’s clear that Martin Luther King Jr.’s dream of a society where people are judged by the content of their character, not the color of their skin, remains just that—a dream. Trump’s rhetoric and the support it received have made it evident that these prejudices continue to shape the way many Americans view the world.
I once believed that the majority of Americans didn’t tolerate vulgarity or offensive language. But Trump’s campaign has shown us that, for many, it’s not just accepted—it’s embraced. Even among those who claim to follow Christian values, boorish behavior seems to be overlooked if it serves their interests. This election has been a wake-up call about how far we’ve fallen from the ideals we once claimed to hold dear.
And then there’s the law. We were always told that no one was above it, that we were all equal before the law. But under Trump’s leadership, we’ve seen how the powerful are able to break the law without facing any consequences. What’s worse is that, for some, a criminal record is no longer something to hide or be ashamed of. In fact, it’s celebrated as a badge of honor.
As a child, I was taught about the Ten Commandments—simple moral guidelines that were supposed to guide our actions. Now, it seems that for many, these laws have little weight. While some may still want them displayed in public spaces, it’s clear that they hold little sway when it comes to how people actually live their lives.
Finally, before Trump’s win, I—and many others—believed in the idea of America as a “shining city on a hill,” as Ronald Reagan once put it. We saw ourselves as a beacon of hope and democracy in the world. But now, we can see that we are just as vulnerable to the rise of corrupt, power-hungry leaders as any other country. Trump’s win has shattered the illusion of American exceptionalism. We are no different from the nations we once looked down upon for falling under the sway of authoritarian figures.
So, what has Trump’s victory exposed about us? That we are more self-centered, less compassionate, and far less committed to basic principles of decency than we would like to believe. We’ve become a nation that is willing to overlook character flaws, embrace hatred and division, and ignore the law when it suits us.
It’s painful, but necessary, to face the truth. Trump has forced us to see who we truly are—whether we like it or not. And if we’re ever going to reclaim the America we thought we were, we have to start by accepting this uncomfortable reality.